“When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” This age-old adage perfectly encapsulates the importance of respecting and adapting to local customs when visiting a foreign country. For foreigners traveling to Japan, understanding and adhering to local etiquette can make a significant difference in your experience. As a foreign woman married to a Japanese man, I’ve had the unique opportunity to gain insights into Japanese culture and societal norms. Here, I offer some advice on what not to do in Japan to ensure you have a pleasant and respectful visit.
1. Using a Cell Phone on Public Transport
In Japan, public transportation is a space of quiet and consideration. Using a cell phone to make calls or even talking loudly is frowned upon. If you need to use your phone, switch it to silent mode and use it discreetly.
2. Eating on Public Transport
While it might be common in some countries to eat on trains or buses, it’s generally considered impolite in Japan. Exceptions are made for long-distance travel, such as on the Shinkansen (bullet train), where eating is more acceptable. However, for regular commuter trains and buses, it’s best to wait until you’ve reached your destination.
3. Being Noisy in Public Places
Japanese culture values peace and quiet in public spaces. Being excessively loud or drawing attention to yourself can be seen as disrespectful. Whether you’re in a park, restaurant, or on the street, maintaining a low volume is appreciated.
4. Complaining to Others (Getting Emotional)
Expressing strong emotions or complaining publicly can be seen as disruptive. If you encounter an issue, it’s best to handle it calmly and privately. This approach helps maintain harmony and avoids unnecessary attention.
5. Taking Pictures of People You Don’t Know
In Japan, privacy is highly valued. Taking photos of strangers without their permission is considered intrusive. Always ask for consent before photographing people, especially in public spaces.
6. Making Special Requests at Restaurants
Japanese cuisine is often prepared with specific ingredients and methods. Asking a restaurant to omit or add specific foods, or to change the cooking method, can be seen as disrespectful to the chef’s artistry. It’s best to enjoy the dish as it is presented.
7. Wearing Clothes That Emphasize Cleavage
Modesty in dress is appreciated in Japan. Women wearing clothing that emphasizes cleavage can attract unwanted attention and may be considered inappropriate. Opting for more modest attire helps you blend in and show respect for local customs.
8. Carrying a Pocket Knife with a Blade Longer Than 5.5 cm
Japanese laws are strict about carrying weapons, including pocket knives. Possessing a knife with a blade longer than 5.5 cm on the street can lead to legal trouble. It’s best to avoid carrying such items altogether.
9. Acting in a Conspicuous Manner
Standing out or drawing excessive attention to oneself is generally avoided in Japanese culture. Whether through loud behavior, flashy clothing, or overt gestures, acting conspicuously can make others uncomfortable. Strive for subtlety and discretion in your actions.
Conclusion
While these guidelines can help you navigate Japanese etiquette, it’s important to remember that even locals sometimes slip up, especially in tourist-heavy areas and big cities. Don’t stress too much about minor mistakes; learning and adapting is part of the experience.
At Yoisho Academy, we not only teach the Japanese language but also immerse our students in the cultural nuances that are integral to understanding and respecting Japan. Join us to learn more about Japanese etiquette, language, and traditions, ensuring you have a well-rounded and enriching experience during your visit. Embrace the journey of cultural discovery with Yoisho Academy, where respect and understanding are at the heart of our teachings.
Really nice. Detailed overview.